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  • Jul28

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    In one of today’s seminar’s, Tim Muehlhoff focused on the idea that every conversation has a communication climate. His definition of a communication climate is ‘the sense of value that two people feel  as they are engaged in the conversation.’ A communication climate is as real as the temperature or weather climate outside. How fun is a picnic in a thunderstorm or 120 degree heat? Not very.

    We must constantly evaluate the climate of our conversations with people in order to be effective communicators. It’s important to look past surface level impressions and stereotypes in order to understand why the person you are conversing with is the way they are. Proverbs 20:5 says, “The purpose in a man’s heart is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out.” Everyone has a story and background, and unless we are committed to getting to know and listen to their story, our words may fall on deaf ears. 

    Meuhlhoff gave four elements that need to be present in a conversation/relationship, and they are great gauges to see whether or not a platform has been built for the hearing of the gospel.

    They are:

    • acknowledgment
    • expectations
    • trust
    • commitment

    Acknowledgment seems to be the element I lack in the most, so I’ll expound a little on that one, and then give brief summaries and questions for the other three.

    Acknowledgment
    Have I taken time to consistently seek out and acknowledge this person’s perspective? Have I shown that their opinion is valuable?

    Tim points out three types of relationships: I/it relationships, I/you relationships, and I/thou relationships.

    I/It relationships: We treat people as non-humans. Some examples of these types of relationships that people are often guilty of is their view of the homeless, disabled, mentally handicapped, transvestites, etc. 

    I/You relationships: We treat people only as their social position defines them. Some examples of this are the waiter in the restaurant, the worker in the post office, the street cleaner or garbage man. We treat people as if their value were defined by their job, rather than the fact that we are all created in the image of God. “A person who is kind to you, but mean to the waiter in not a kind person.”

    I/Thou relationships: We treat people as created in the image of God with value and unique talents. This is how all our relationships should look like. 

    Some ways of showing that you acknowledge and respect the other person’s point of view and opinion:

    • “What you have said has made an impression on me.” (Only if it really has made an impression on you. Proverbs 24:26 says, “Whoever gives an honest answer kisses the lips.”) 
    • Seek to show that you are working to understand what they are saying.
    • Let the person know that their feelings are important, and that you aren’t just dismissing them.

    Muehlhoff also gave two reasons why we aren’t very good in the acknowledgment area. The first is that we have agenda anxiety. We feel as if we have to get our point across no matter how awkward or horrible the conversation is going. It’s the attitude of “we’re finally talking about this, and I’ve been waiting and longing for this moment so now I’m going to say everything that I want to say on the subject.” It’s very hard to evaluate the climate of the conversation when this becomes our mindset. Agenda anxiety runs the risk of stopping a good conversation in its tracks, and preventing further conversations. Proverbs 18:19 says, “A brother offended is more unyielding than a strong city.” 

    The second reason we are not very good at acknowledgment is we are fearful of weighty thinkers because of insecurities about our Christian faith. We have failed to learn many of the basics of our faith, and therefore, create stereotypes in our minds of certain people. Many view postmodernists as mindless relativists because they don’t claim definite truths. In reality, most postmodernists are extremely brilliant thinkers who have correctly rejected the works of modernists, but have missed the mark in other ways. By acknowledging them as great thinkers, we are more capable of having a fruitful conversation with them. Obviously, we are not to compromise or ‘meet-in-the-middle’ on key doctrinal principles, but acknowledging that you respect them as a human being even though you may not agree with their beliefs will keep communication lines open. 

    I do not respect the religion of Islam, but I respect the Muslim.

    Expectations
    The second element is expectations. Both expectations that we have of others and that others have for us.

    Have you been judgmental or overbearing in this relationship/conversation? Are you prideful or arrogant about what you believe (it’s because of God’s grace that you even believe what you do)? You are in no way more deserving of God’s grace than they are.

    Trust
    The third element of a conversation climate is trust. In today’s society, trust is being trampled by politicians, sports figures, religious figures, presidents, etc. You can hardly believe anything you hear on Fox News or MSNBC because of the political spin put on everything.

    Can this person trust your motives? Are you having an authentic conversation with them? Are you trying to win them to your way of thinking, or do you truly care about them as an individual with whom God wants to reconcile to Himself?

    Commitment
    How much time are you investing into this relationship? How much energy are you investing into this relationship? How concerned are you for the welfare of this individual? Are you being a good neighbor?

  • Jul26

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    Yesterday morning, Dr. Tim Keller continued his explanation of the gospel,  but focused this time on a more outward perspective: The gospel for unbelievers.

    His text was Luke 10.

    Dr. Keller pointed out that there are four M’s of the gospel in this chapter: Gospel Mission, Gospel Message, Gospel Motivation, and Gospel Method.

    Gospel Mission (Luke 10:1-8)
    In Luke 9, Jesus send out his twelve disciples to proclaim the kingdom of God. In Luke 10, he sends out 72 (some manuscripts say 70) to do the same. Why 72? 

    Genesis 10 accounts for 72 nations. By first sending the twelve, and then appointing seventy-two, Christ was not just sending out his apostles; he was sending out all of humanity. The Gospel mission is a mission for all. If you know Christ, it is now your chief mission to make him known. Every Christian man and woman is a man and woman with a mission.

    The Gospel turns every person who receives it into a person with a mission. And a full understanding of the Gospel transforms you into something like the woman at the well in John 4 who immediately ran into town to tell everyone about ‘the man who told her everything she has ever done.’ [sidebar: if you are looking for a great sermon series on the woman at the well, I highly suggest Dr. Curt Heffelfinger's, which can be found here, here, and here.]

    ‘Ok, ok…I get it. We have a mission. So what does that mean? Do I have to become a missionary now?”

    Yes and no.

    Yes, because you part of this mission and are called to help fulfill that mission.

    And no, because not everyone is supposed to quit their job to become a ‘vocational missionary.’

    For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.
    - Ephesians 2:10

    We are God’s unique workmanship. The original greek word for workmanship is POIEMA, which means handiwork or craftsmanship. In English, it becomes the word ‘Poem.’ We are each God’s unique work of art, created with differing gifts and talents and passions. For the gifted engineer who displays integrity, character, and Christ’s love to his Islamic and Hindu co-workers, that’s your mission. For the compassionate teacher who displays intentionality and Christ’s love to children who live in unloving homes, that’s your mission. 

    You don’t have to be a missionary, but you do need to have the mindset of a missionary in your place of influence. We have found the Fountain of living water. Let us not be so selfish to neglect to offer this never-ending source to those who store up broken cisterns which hold no water.

    Gospel Message (Luke 10:9-12)
    Sixty years ago, evangelism was an irritation to people. The word evangelism made some people cringe. Today, it is flat out offensive. Keller says that evangelism has become one of today’s secular sins. Even to the point that our society’s attitude says “Evangelism is bad for out culture.”

    However, there is a problem with having a problem with evangelism. The problem comes from the origin of the word Gospel, which means ‘good news.’

    The Gospel is good news, not good advice. News is an historic event that changes something. Advice is a suggestion that says, “Hey, this has worked for me. Try it out.” 

    When we turn the Gospel into advice, it can lead to a new believer into becoming extremely frustrated when it doesn’t “work” the way he hoped. However, when someone accepts the Gospel as what it is (good news), no matter what happens, the news doesn’t change.

    Which is why in the end, every other religion will fail because they all say, “Here is our founder giving advice on how to find God.” Christianity says, “Here is God! He has come into the world to find us.”

    Gospel Motivation (Luke 10:17-20)
    The third M of the gospel in Luke 10 is motivation. Dr. Keller suggests that it is easy to get our motivation wrong, and that we should learn from the example of the 72 that Jesus sent out. 

    The seventy-two returned with joy, saying, “Lord, even the demons are subject to us in your name!” And he said to them, “I saw Satan fall like lightning from heaven. Behold, I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall hurt you. Nevertheless, do not rejoice in this, that the spirits are subject to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven.”
    -Luke 10:17-20

    The seventy-two returned with joy. What were they joyful about? “Even the demons are subject TO US in your name!” How quickly we can turn the ability that Christ has given us into our ability that we possess.

    Christ shows them the correct motivation to not rejoice in that, but to “rejoice that your name is written in heaven.” 

    Are you getting your significance through what God is empowering you to do? Your job is not about you. Ministry is not about you. Here is your significance: Your name is written (past tense) in heaven.

    Live on a platform of knowing who you already are in Christ, and simply be a messenger.

    With the correct motivation, lost souls turned to Christ are not scalps, they are children of God.

    Gospel Method (Luke 10:25-37)
    Keller’s last M of the gospel is Method. What is the correct method of presenting the gospel?

    Be a good samaritan.

    You will be a lousy messenger if you are a lousy neighbor. Don’t just try to meet the spiritual needs of your community while neglecting to meet their physical, social, or economic needs. God created a physical and spiritual world. He is redeeming the physical and spiritual. The Fall didn’t just alienate us from God, it also psychologically alienated us from ourselves (we know we are naked). It socially alienated us from each other. And lastly, we experience physical alienation…we die. 

    There are needs in the community far beyond simply spiritual. Obviously, that is the primary and most pressing need, but we need to see that God cares for all needs. After all, didn’t Joseph lead one of the most massive hunger relief programs of all-time? Is Exodus, Numbers, & Deuteronomy not full of laws that help create order to meet social needs?

    Counsel. Serve. Give.

    “Yeah, but I have earned this. They haven’t.”  I think Jesus could say the same. But He didn’t.

    “Yeah, but they don’t deserve it.” Again. Come on people. (Keller’s words)

    “They’ll waste/misuse my gifts.” Jesus knew that there would be many who would use his grace as a license to sin. He died for us anyways.

    Let’s be good neighbors. If the world sees us doing nothing except evangelizing, they are going to assume that we are only out to get more power. If we are actually making the community a better place, then they’ll like that we are around and maybe listen to what we have to say. Being great neighbors will give us a platform for the hearing of the gospel.

  • Jun18

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    Parks Society Special Event – Tim Keller
    This morning, Tim Keller spoke at Orangewood Presbyterian Church at a Parks Society Special Event. He outlined what a gospel DNA is within a ministry, and why it must exist in order to reach the culture.

    Gospel DNA is essentially just ministry emphases that rely on the saving work of Christ on the cross. The heart of every ministry, church, cause, mission, etc. should be the gospel. The gospel itself is “the power of God unto salvation.” It alone is enough to reach the hearts of men. Though God provides different avenues to bring this message to his people, the power lies in the gospel.

    So what does a gospel DNA look like? Keller explains that there are 4 key factors involved. 

    Grace-Motivated People
    The first factor is that people are motivated by grace. Repetitively pounding your will upon people will not motivate them to do or believe anything. Telling them over and over again that they should do something just because they should doesn’t win their hearts. People are motivated by the grace that has been poured out for them and freely offered. People are motivated by grace that pours from Christ’s never-exhausted reservoir of love and patience.

    City-minded & Kindgom-minded
    The second key factor in a gospel DNA is that the ministry/church/people must be city-minded and kingdom-minded. This factor poses the challenging question: ‘Is this city here for the growth and success of your church, or is your church here for the redemption of the city?’ Pour your life out for the city. Do not let your vision become skewed and make your existence upon power. Be city-minded.

    Keller also urges that we recognize that we are part of a bigger thing than denominations. Our aim is bigger than being Baptist, Presbyterian, or Pentecostal. We are part of God’s redemptive cause in bringing many sons to glory. We are part of Christ making all things new (not that we have the power to do so in ourselves, but through his gospel). We are part of the growth of His Kingdom. Be kingdom-minded.

    Integrative-Balanced Ministry
    In order to be effective as a ministry, we must have an integrative balance. There are three focuses here: Connect people to God, connect people to each other, and connect people to their culture. 

    Connecting people to God is important because if we aren’t doing that, why do we exist? We are created to know God. If we know already Him, our purpose is to know Him deeper, and point people to the Treasure we have found. Simple as that. Outreach is essential. Keyword: Outreach. Reach out to people. Last time I checked, people aren’t running in droves through church doors on Sunday mornings on their own to hear about God.

    Secondly, we must connect people to each other. Change happens in community. You become like the people you spend time with. Connecting people with each other is essential for a Christian’s growth.

    Connect people to the culture. We need to be teaching Christians to be salt and light to the world. Part of that is being able to disciple people outside the 4-walls of church. One thing we are really good at (that maybe we shouldn’t be) is taking a Christian out of the culture, bringing him inside church, and making him really useful inside the church. We need to be better at teaching people how to be useful as engineers, architects, salesman, artists, real estate specialists, receptionists, CEO’s, labor workers. The best evangelism is laying yourself out for the city.

    Contextualization 
    Ministries and churches need to contextualize themselves. We cannot be so one-dimensional in our outreach to the city. Just because we are moved by something in a particular way doesn’t mean others are moved by the same thing. To think so is prideful. We should aim to place the gospel in a understandable context. You wouldn’t tell a four year-old about God’s love by explaining the imputation and impartation of Christ’s righteousness to us. You sing “Jesus loves me this I know, for the Bible tells me so.” An understandable context for a four year old. Keller said that the very incarnation of Christ was contextualization. The incarnation was “Diety for Dummies.” 

    Reformed rap is a huge new context for outreaching to urban communities. Guys like Lecrae, Tedashii, and Trip Lee are placing gospel truth in an understandable context for urban communities. And it’s working. 

    A vital focus is to maintain truth though. It’s useless to be relevant if we are delivering a different message, or a watered-down one. Be in the world, not of the world.

  • Jun2

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    Awesome article by Jonathan Dodson…check it out!

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